Preserving Inner Peace as an Introvert During the Holidays
“Learn to enjoy being with yourself.”
– Shana Lee Gibson
Take care of your peace.
As I sit here, I think about how many quiet moments I want to enjoy this holiday season. I’m a bit of a recluse, and my loved ones know they’ll find me halfway through a gathering, tucked away in a cozy book nook or an empty room.
It doesn’t take long before everyone starts coming over, and suddenly, I’m back in the middle of things.
We’re all here to catch up, and it’s been at least a few months for most of us, maybe even longer for some.
Should I try to slip away, or should I stay and join the conversation?
By the end of the night, I’ve stayed present and friendly. We exchange hugs and promise to meet again next year.
Looking back, I realize I really did enjoy being with everyone, even though I was unsure at first.
But when it comes to work parties and social gatherings with karaoke machines, entertainment, and an itinerary, I usually opt out.
As an introvert, I prefer fresh air and a meaningful chat over mingling in a loud room. I’d rather go for a hike than deal with crowded parking lots, and I enjoy discovering old trees on walks with my dog instead of waiting in long lines for food and drinks.
I’ve learned to honour what I need and to keep social gatherings to a minimum so I can preserve my inner sanctuary of peace.
“Don’t let time slip from your hands. Educate yourself, train yourself, and most of all, have fun with yourself.”
―Renuka Gavrani
In appreciation for your being here,
Shana Lee